Ask a Psychic is a biweekly feature of my blog where I will be answering your burning questions about all things related to spirituality, psychic powers, spell castings, tarot readings, and just about anything else you can think of!
Today's question comes from "Tessa"....
Sunny,
In regards to bonds with past lovers, how important or necessary is it to break these bonds? Will these bonds always affect your current relationship or do they just have the potential to?
Thank You,
Tessa
Hi Tessa,
First of all, what a great question! One of the gigs that I offer is called a Soul Tie Cleanse. This is sort of like a spell - but it's more of a cleansing ritual. The purpose of this is to sever or break the bonds between yourself and previous lovers, so that you can either start fresh or have a renewed energy within your current (or future) relationship.
When we are in a relationship with someone - even if that relationship does not have a sexual component, there are bonds formed between two people. This is particularly true if you were in love with the person, but these bonds can also exist when you just have strong feelings for them...or if there is not "love" but there is a sexual relationship or "friends with benefits" type of connection.
When a relationship ends, these bonds can linger. You may find yourself thinking about this person a little too much - during sex with your new partner or when you and your new partner have an argument, for example. Some people go so far as to make contact with their ex or even cheat on their new partner with their old one. This is unhealthy for a new relationship and can of course damage it if your new partner finds out. It's also something that can take an emotional toll on you - even if you never act on it.
This is where the Soul Tie Cleanse comes in. It breaks those bonds with your exes. You then work through what's similar to a grieving process, but more gentle. You gradually begin to think about your ex less and less, until you no longer have those bonds or ties to them emotionally. You still remember them - this doesn't erase your memory at all. But when you think about them, it becomes more of a quick little thought, like nostalgia...that doesn't linger on.
There are extras that can be ordered for the Soul Tie Cleanse as well - which will allow me to also break the bond between yourself and ALL your past lovers...even if you can't remember them all! :) There is one to break the bond between your current lover and his/her past lovers as well. So please take a look at the extras offered and let me know if you need help deciding what to order! I'm always happy to answer questions about this!
Now that I've explained what it is....I'll address your specific questions! You asked how important it is to break these bonds. Well it depends on the person. For example, you may have broken up with your ex and then not given them another thought. This is a clean break and the bond is so miniscule or already broken so it's not likely to affect your current relationship at all, in which case a Soul Tie Cleanse is unnecessary and really would be just a precaution. However if you find yourself thinking about them a lot, unable to get them off your mind, wondering what might have been, etc. then a Soul Tie Cleanse is a good idea. And on the same token, no - it won't always affect your current relationship but the potential is almost always there - even when it was a "bad breakup" or if you feel like you hate your ex, lol. Even strong emotions like hate can have negative effects on your current relationship.
The bottom line is, anytime you break up with someone it's a good idea to get a Soul Tie Cleanse just to sort of "clean the slate". The Soul Tie Cleanse starts at $5 which will break the bond between yourself and one ex partner/lover. You can check out the gig here!
PS - I have been getting some FANTASTIC questions from you guys! Please keep them coming!
Blessings,
Sunny :)
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